6 months and I'm in ruines again.

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Bigajb1

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Alright well let me give you the background: 6 months ago me and my girlfriend of 2 years broke up(we fought all the time, I felt like she was holding me back etc.) then a few weeks later I realize I want her back but she has a new guy. Well a few weeks go by with lots of tears and regret untill I eventually think I've totally gotten over her. Up untill about a week ago.

I see her drivng, first time I've seen her in months, and we exchange waves. Well I text her that night and ask if she wants to get some lunch sometime and she replied with something like, "Ill pass".

Well ever since then I've been at that heartbreak stage that I was 6 months ago and I know she has every right to not want to see me but it's killing me. She is the only person I've ever loved, sure I'm great full to my parents for all they've done for me and all that but I've never had someone I could connect with like her.

I know we don't have a future together and it hurts so badly. I'm 19 by the way.


Any advice? I'm trying to work out/hang with friends more but I just feel so alone.




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2 young for love buddy get out there and enjoy life a serious relationship will only hold you back while your young get out and play the field ur only 19 still a lot of living to do believe me ive been there done that and livin the good single life now lol dont let a girl hold you back you'll learn this lesson in time hopefully quicker than me 3yrs 1 kid now its all in the past moved on and couldnt be better :D
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ger89 said:
2 young for love buddy get out there and enjoy life a serious relationship will only hold you back while your young get out and play the field ur only 19 still a lot of living to do believe me ive been there done that and livin the good single life now lol dont let a girl hold you back you'll learn this lesson in time hopefully quicker than me 3yrs 1 kid now its all in the past moved on and couldnt be better :D
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I was 16 when I met my girl we moved in together at 19, 10 years and 1 beautiful little girl later we are still happy so I wouldn't say too young.
To the op I think time is the only thing that will help you at the moment. Try to remember why you broke up in the first place and keep strong.
 
Just get on with life. Embrace that feeling of loss and love. It is the only way you will get over it.

One day, sooner than you think, it will be over.

And one day you will meet a girl and then you will think how it was possible to ever have loved this one.
 
hamster said:
I was 16 when I met my girl we moved in together at 19, 10 years and 1 beautiful little girl later we are still happy so I wouldn't say too young.
To the op I think time is the only thing that will help you at the moment. Try to remember why you broke up in the first place and keep strong.
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Yeah thats it but spending 2 much time alone aint the answer embrace ur family and friends get out and do those things you always wanted to and dont keep anything that will remind you of those times I was also 16 broke up when I was 20 nearly 24 now and living life to the full no regrets I gurantee it wont be the first we always meet new people and forget others just as quickly its a way of life

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Miguel said:
Just get on with life. Embrace that feeling of loss and love. It is the only way you will get over it.

One day, sooner than you think, it will be over.

And one day you will meet a girl and then you will think how it was possible to ever have loved this one.
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