Nice build! I love how "simple" your build is compared to the over kill projects we see a lot of. To solve your sump flow balancing issue and still get 100% flow you will need to connect your sumps with a balance pipe or water bridge. Either drill the sumps or you can use another King of DIY method and just run a U shape piece of pvc between the tanks. I just had to figure out the same issue with one of my tanks. Here is the video where he shows the U method. Click to 1:00 when he starts the explanation.
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Thanks for the advice, I would like to say it is a simple as it seems, but there has been a lot of trial and error going into finishing the project. I actually have the sumps both drilled and connected, and I used a valve to help control flow. I considered doing a u-pipe like shown in the video you posted, but decided not to because I did not want to risk the siphon breaking and ending up with a huge mess on the floor.








