BigCountry;2999853; said:
Awesome man!
You guys are right, the kids would get bored with just 1-2 fish. So a community tank sounds good. The eels sound very cool as well.
So....
Escondido or Green terror (how many exactly? Great suggestion, the wife will love these..)
(2-3) Striped Peacock Eels (this number correct?)
*or*
(1-2) Loaches and 1 (Plecos) (these numbers correct?)
More like 8-10 loaches! They like being in groups... 8 seems to be the magic # for most, but no harm getting a few more

I keep botia striata and they top out around 5" but very slow growers. You could keep yoyo's which top around 6" I believe. Lupin could give you a ton more info on loaches.
I actually have the setup I recommended to you, and am sure I'll be removing fish and finding new homes as they grow up.
Current stocking:
8 botia striata
1 king Tiger pleco
1 spotted medusa pleco
1 peppermint pleco
1 clown pleco
4 juvenile carpintis escondido
1 GT
2 thor. meeki F1 subin
and I just picked up 3 striped peacock eels today.
Goal for the tank is going to likely 1-2 Carpintis, 1 GT, 8 striata, the plecos, 1 of the meeki, and the 3 eels.
Nearly everyone was a juvenile at the time of purchase.. the GT being the largest when I acquired her at 3.5-4". The carpintis were about 1-1.5" and the meeki were about 1" The largest carpintis is now almost as big as the GT and the 2nd largest is following suit. The 2 meeki(firemouths) are about 2.5" and showing a lot of aggression towards each other but not the other fish... I'll likely be getting rid of one of them very soon. The eels just came in today so they are in quarantinne for a few weeks so I can get them a bit fatter.
To give you an idea of what the tank looks like regarding the base wood and rocks her's a pic:
The next pic is after I got some plants and smaller wood pieces to fill in a bit:
Needless to say, we don't see the plecs that often as they have so much room to hide around in. The eels will likely house themselves in the rock work on the right hand side as that's where the darkest areas of the tank are.
Your situation sounds very similar to mine with needing to please the kids and making sue the fish look good enough to keep the wife on board with you. This tank is set up in our bedroom so the kids don't get a lot of time to bang on the glass but I let em watch the fish for 20-30 mins while watching TV with us at night before bed. The oldest is 7 in november and the youngest turns 2 in June. the 22 month old loves this tank the best, more because of the plants I think but goes nuts when i feed them. She sits in my lap and will point at the GT and largest escondido constantly when they swim by as they are quite colorful.
I think your older kids would get a kick out of the bigger fish and their personalities whether you put anything else in the tank or not. My stepsister who is 2-3 years older than my oldest daughter loves the loaches ore than anything, when she comes over. They are all over the place and definitely the sideshows
I'm sure as these guys get older I'll have issues to deal with, but in the mean time they are growing very well and rapidly and have some great personalities. I'd recommend them to anyone trying to get a setup that pleases a wife and kisd at the same time !!
Good luck with whatever you decide, and be sure to let us know! I found myself talking to a complete stranger this morning at the store my oldest started gabbing with this morning... she had a 500gallon saltwater tank and was waiting for some corals to come in she had just ordered. My daughter was in awe at this and started egging me to do a SW tank... I laughed, said goodbye and pulled her out of the store before she could get any more crazy ideas, lol!