Heres your general aquastion of flaming;
Person 1: Has an 18" aro in a 55
Person 2: Thats cool lets see some PIC
Person 3: You need a bigger tank
Person 1: he's happy, what do you know
Person 3: Defends his/her knowledge and gives proof to prove thier point
Person 1: Why are you attacking me, flamer
Person 2:
Person 3: :WTF:
Goes on for a while then the thread gets closed.
What a flamer would say (for those who can't tell the difference)
Person 1: Has an 18" aro in a 55
Person 2: Thats cool lets see some PIC
Person 3: you guys are

, you cant keep the aro in that tank you

, you shouldn't keep fish you

, I hope you die.
See the difference.