Princess...Please stop doing this to yourself....you are a VERY beautiful girl. You DO NOT need to make your self look so shallow. Hun you are HOT, no way around it, I realize you may not of bin in the past....I understand that, but you have to stop making your self look so....well as you put it "whorish" you are very beautiful any guy would be proud to call their own, if not they are crazy....except the fact you are trying to put yourself.."out there" so much would you want a person that everyone else has sean, been with or whatever.....no you wouldn't, please stop doing this to your self. You know you are hot, if you don't your nuts.....please stop making yourself out to be something your not.
Flirting and being fun is one thing, but what you are doing to yourself is another. You seem like such a sweetheart, you are everything that a person could ask for.....stop making yourself look so bad. Yes, attention is fun....yes, having others tell you how hot you are is a "turn on"...but is it worth how you will feel in the end?
Please do not take what I am saying as "negative" I really am trying to be nice, and help you in the long run....believe me you are not going to feel good about yourself in the end if you do not stop.