These are terrific fish, I hope you have success this time. The one lost to an overfilled tank is especially heartbreaking; what a way to lose an uncommon and treasured fish that is otherwise doing well...only to have it drown...
Back in the 1970's I kept one of these for a few years. I won't say "owned" it because it actually belonged to a friend of my father, one of my earliest mentors in the hobby, who had procured two of them from the US by the simple expedient of driving across the border into the states, picking them up at an aquarium store, and driving back with them. He had only one tank that could be devoted to them and they immediately began fighting, immediately as in "while still in the bag", so after a few days of using a divider and having them jump over, slip under or otherwise defeat it, he asked me to try one in my one "big" tank, which was about 90 gallons at the time.
My water at that time was sourced form an Artesian well which ran continuously in the basement of my father's house. I had only just completed a primitive but effective continuous drip system, whereby a constant flow-through of fresh spring water. So, the tank had a constant flow-through of fresh spring water, at least 2 or 3 tank volumes of water changed daily. No filters, no aerators, and no problems. The fish thrived for several years, eating only flakes, frozen brine (baby at first and eventually adult) and other tiny food particles. It never even looked at any other fish, not even new-born livebearers, and never fought with or bullied anything else, even once it grew to maybe 16 or 18 inches.
My friend's fish lived well by itself, in a tank equipped with state-of-the-art filtration...an airpowered undergravel filter

...which he stirred up several times daily to release a cloud of organic particles into the water, which the fish appeared to filter for food. His was also completely non-aggressive and non-predatory.
After perhaps three years, I moved out of that house...beginning a life-long quest for a system that was even remotely as easy, fool-proof and effective for keeping fish...and we carefully transferred "my" fish back to my friend's house. Mine was by that time several inches longer than his, but the fighting began immediately and they were separated and kept apart going forward. My friend passed away not long afterwards and I don't know what happened to most of his fish, including the two Heterotis.
Looking forward to following your progress with this one.