few observations with mine... I had one for about 2 years back in the day, and the one I have now I have had for a year.
- They grow really really really slowly. I still haven't seen a picture of one at 9 inches. You will probably get one to about 6, and its growth will slow down even more. The tetras that I am thinking of (I am not a tetra expert) should be fine
- Mine right now will eat shrimp, blood worms, and black worms. But I have never seriously tried to get it to eat anything else as I get black worms for free so that is my main food. The one I had years ago would eat flake food from the top of the tank. If in doubt, ask the pet store to feed that tank and see if it comes up to eat. most petstores I know only feed flakes, so if it comes up to eat your good.
- I have kept them from as low as 76* to as high as 85ish and they were fine both times.
- My two would come out to food instantly... they were not slow eaters at all. I kept hte first one with some cichlids (sevs, angels, a blood parrot) and he would get their just as fast they they would. The one I have now will come out as fast as my leopard ctenopoma and beats teh bichirs to the food.
- They are a shy fish... but mine have always come out during the day once they got really comfortable. The first one I had was out constantly. He had a cave he would retreat to if he felt threatened, but when he wasn't he was hanging outside the cave. The one I have now will come out of his cave once he feels comfortable, meaning if I get up and move aroudn he will hide. If I sit down and be somewhat still (I don't have to be a statue but I can't be dancing around) he will comeout and hang out in the middle of the tank. One thing you should do is NOT FEED WHEN THE LIGHTS ARE OFF. They WILL come out to get food when the lights are on. A fish won't starve itself because it doesn't like lights. This will get him used to the lights, and also show him that the lights aren't evil and they don't equal death.
- I have always just stacked rocks as caves. mine also likes to hide under a large fake plant I have. I have never used pvc pipe because its ugly as hell