I'm sure you have MUCH more experience than I when it comes to discus.
My statements are what I believe, and have seen with my own eyes...in juvenile discus. Why would they not be able to differenciate between the colors and pattens of other fish different from themselves?
Nobody said they wouldn't breed with each other..and of course they will live with each other. I mean really, haven't we all seen about a thousand pictures of every different type of discus packed together into a huge show aquarium somewhere or another?
The question was if different types show agression towards other strains. I answered YES. They do. I've seen it with my own eyes. Up to a point. Fish ARE stupid. You're right on that one, and all of mine stayed with the same color for the first few months and then SLOWLY started to hang all together.
As far as the even/odd thing goes....I have an odd number and all of them are getting along fine. I had an even number, and ended up purchasing 1 more due to bullying by the dominant fish. Could just have been chance, but it worked for me. I believe what I've heard, and what I've seen. I'm sure there are a million tanks out there with even numbered fish in them, just as there are a million more with odd.
Point being: They wanted an opinion I gave it. Whatever your experiences and opinions may be, fine with me. I'm laying out what I've seen.