This is exactly my experience with the species as well. I got the male in my avatar at 2" in feb of '09 from Rapps and it reached about 9" TL in the first year. At around 7-8" the lengthwise growth slowed tremendously and now it does not seem to be growing any longer. He is currently 11" TL.
To the OP, yours will most likely grow a little bit more lengthwise but I'd expect him to really start growing in height and girth from this point.
Also to the breeding, I also have experienced the same in that they do not breed as early as other species. I have 2 females that are 6" now that I received this past summer. Only one has ever spawned and she only laid eggs once and that was just a couple of months ago. She has not laid eggs since.