starve him for a month.he will start eating.I had a Aro that would not eat any dry food I put in.he started eating the dry food I was putting in the tank.
Market prawn (de-shelled first) - that usually works. my arapaimas are not picky. when they grow larger they really eat just about anything. Hikari floating pellets works well too - too would be pricey to feed paimas in long run. Couple of days is not starving though if you have tank mates they can be quite vicious when hungry.
good luck.
PS: should have started on market prawns straight away - oh well, he ll come around