All of that said, have to agree with you Dloks, despite the challenges overall it's had a super positive effect on my life too, really settled me down, haven't been to the "Sin City' part of the island in ages, pretty much stopped after she came into my life, priorities changed.
Anyway, since my daughter is now more into make-up than monster fish, I'm going to bequeath my/our 2 Asian Arowana to your daughter, so you can tell her she's 'part-owner' too (technically more than you
Just don't forget to tell her about the Dept. of Fish & Game side of things some day when she's old enough to understand.