Thanks guys. Im actually looking for huge humped male for her now. The offspring would be gigantic!
First time I took down the divider she pinned him corner of the tank and wouldnt let him move. Put the divider back for a few days and he grew some balls and fought back. They lip locked for about 2 hours and then they were fine. But its quite obvious that she still rules the tank.
She is about 10"and thick. Got a smaller male labiatus from Ken. Getting along fine now, but took a few tries with the divider. And yes, its a confirmed female.