Like many folks I have the Black Diamond Blasting Sand, but I did not rinse it or put it right in the
tank.
I first
sifted it through a window screen to remove the dust and fine grains. I wound up with a much nicer coarser sand, but tossed about 1/2 in the garden as too fine. (Please, wear a dust mask so you don't get silicosis.)
I found that by sifting it instead of rinsing it, I removed nearly all of the oil, which is mainly attached to the dust, and I didn't get the dirty oil scum & floating dust so many folks report.
Most of what remained was easily wicked off with a paper towel. Tank settled down quickly, as my overflow skims the top into a sump. I put a fine floss pad on top for one day then rinsed it out.
I was worried my Corydoras would find it too harsh, but not so. Their whiskers are sharp and fine.