I am sure you can find somebody to help your wife out. Place an ad here or at a VFW post, home base or go on a local firearm website (they tend to have active and former military who understand and will help). I am sure you can find someone who will do it no charge. If you weren't in Kentucky I would help out.
One a side note where are you deployed? You have pretty constent access to the internet, using MWR computer?
One a side note where are you deployed? You have pretty constent access to the internet, using MWR computer?