Wow i didn't know they were THAT dirty. I imagined then being as a dirty as 2 or 3 plecos of their size (a 1 foot stingray produces as much waste as 3 1 foot plecos), i thought that filtration would've been enough, you should make a post on stingray filtrationWell IMHO thats not enough filtration. As i stated on my grow out tank slighty smaller then 210g i have an large showerfilter with 70L biomedia run with a 10000L/h pump, one 120 moving bed sump with prob 40L k1 thats runned through by 2000L/h and one eheim cannister just for polishing the water and i still changed 80% twice a week.
I cant tell you what to do but i can give you my best advice as a raykeeper. Read up on rays on the forum and other places online and watch threads on diy filtration. Pondsolutions is where i find my inspiration on filterbuilds. There is some really nice threads here on the forum on both rays and filtration. IMO a 210 is way to small even for an hystrix/wallacei that are supposed to stay around 35cm wd. I recentlyg transfered my two growouts from their tank to a pond because the got to big for it and the are 18 resp 21cm wd. The growout tank is 2' wide