Guys, I gotta be honest, I agree with Pyramid_Party on this one. He's got other things to worry about than relationship BS. Let's be honest, a lot of a relationship, esp an early relationship, is dealing with someone else's BS. He doesn't need it. Now if he wants it, let him decide of his own accord. Don't push him into thinking he's cool by taking this on.
John, it doesn't matter what is "cool" or "lame," what is important is your grades and your integrity. Just remember that, no matter what you decide.