What I actually do is tighten them by hand and then do a 1/4 turn with a wrench. Though I do know alot of people that just hand tighten. Just don't go overboard with the wrench tightening because you caan actually crack the glass if its to tight and also displace the gasket and cause leaking. I personally don't use silicon, but somepeople do, though I have heard if you use it, it makes it easier to overtighten and crack the tank or displace o ring. The craking wouldnt be a problem for your big tank, but on a small tank, with thin glass, it could be trouble. People have different ways of doing it, just try some different things and see what works. Never seen bulkheads like thaat though. How big (thick) are the gaskets? Is it in the pic cauase i dont really see it.
gaskets are pretty thin. Id estimate 1/8". Im going to try hand tightening it one last time. Then I'll either try the silicone or new bulkheads. Could you guys please recommend some that are easy to install with no leaks?