Those 9-10” males from Dan may not have simply made the breeding stock cut from grow outs or males that female never chose or has a history of killing too many females.My concern exactly. Although it is Dan so I’m inclined to trust what’s he’s got.
Maybe I’ll email him and ask about the history. He makes it sound like he has more than one male in the 9-10 inch range.
you can always ask for a picture if you are 99% on buying the larger fish