if u want big and soppy then id say a boa. but a male...can still reach a good size.
boas r lovely (well all mine r) u still have an impressive beautiful snake, very uncommon they have feeding probs etc. easy t care and maintain for.
im currently considering an anaconda and im still not sure. it is something u have to think long and hard for.
i will admit that i keep my burm in a small enclosure for his size (although im currently about to upgrade him) but hes out every night, he goes swimming in my pool and gets taken to the park as soon as its warm. so he gets plenty of exercise and is extremely slim for a burm even though he gets fed a rabbit every 4 weeks.
he is kept in a double locked viv as i have a daughter that is snack sized, and he only come out when shes in bed.
what i will admit to is before he bit me i would do everything except feeding by myself. since i fed him on my own (the ONE time) and he bit me and tried to pull me in the viv, now thankfully im a big sturdy girl and managed not to lose my balance. my phone was out of reach and luckily hes a gentle feeder and didnt constrict. but ever since EVERYTHING is done when i have people round and i dont think i would have ever gained without this happening.
i ent up in hospital as he had ripped my calf muscle from trying to pull me in.
there was one other instance where we were going next door (my best mates) and he would follow me round.
one day he just seemed to leap over her fence and was halfway in to a bush. all i could get hold of was 2ft of tail....on the other end was a very unhappy burm. we wrestled for 10mins...or so everyone else says, i was pretty sure it was about 3 hours lol
LUCKILY i got hold of him properly and cuddled him and he calmed down. but WOW i never realised the power. i was shaking after from the adrenaline and the next day my whole body ached.
it just makes u realise that YES this animal could so EASILY kill u if it wants.
these r the only 2 probs iv had with him, otherwise hes not far off from a dog.
sorry for the essay lol just want to make u aware that an animal of that size is underestimated greatly due to our ignorance.
thanks
chloe