Chat for single parents...this might not work lol

[chloe]

well she doesnt really know whats going on around her really, so she took it well lol.
but i think it gets too much for me sometimes. i worry too much about what happens if and when he comes back in to her life....or if she wants to find him.
i said i would support her with whatever she wants to do but i wont finance it.
basically its going to come back on me if he accepts her or slams the door in her face.
but i will always be there for her no matter what.

 

[meghanashley]

Yeah, the thought of your kid getting emotionally hurt is upsetting. Maybe she wonn't go down that road. Either way she's lucky she got you but I'm sure you know the kids don't always see it that way.

 

[kevinfleming21]

I'm not a single parent.....guess I'm out

 

[chloe]

Yeah, the thought of your kid getting emotionally hurt is upsetting. Maybe she wonn't go down that road. Either way she's lucky she got you but I'm sure you know the kids don't always see it that way.

well yea, i mean my dad died when i was 2, the my uncle and then my grandad and then my cousin. it seemed every man that came in to my life to be a father figure died. and i took that out quite heavily on my mum.
looking back now the things i used to do to get at her was unreal, and i love her so much more for putting up with it.

so IF she find him, if he slams the door in her face it will b my fault for letting her go and find him when i knew he wouldnt accept her.
and if he accepts her with open arms it will be "why didnt you tell me!!!"

i know if he welcomes her he will lie to her and bend the truth as much as possible, in the hope it will get to me.

hey ho, iv done the hard work and she knows she can trust and i would move the earth for her.
screw him lol
x

I'm not a single parent.....guess I'm out

stalker lol

 

[dysfunctionaljd]

Another single parent here, I have a 5 year old daughter. Might as well call myself an only parent, if you add it all together she has spent less than 24 hours with her mother in the past 6 months, even though she lives less than 2 miles away.

 

[meghanashley]

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screw him lol
x

, he misses out on all the smiles, laughs, and love which in my opinion make up for the empty wallet, worries/ stress, loss of life

Another single parent here, I have a 5 year old daughter. Might as well call myself an only parent, if you add it all together she has spent less than 24 hours with her mother in the past 6 months, even though she lives less than 2 miles away.

thats got to be tough on her/ you, does she miss her?

 

[dysfunctionaljd]

She does ask when she will see her mom again, and it sucks not being able to give her a good answer for when, or why she doesn't get to see her as often. Her mom is looking into moving out of state, which will make it easier to explain why she never sees her mom "Sorry, she's in California" is a much better answer than "I don't know". Luckily she is really close to my sister so she has a positive female influence that she gets to see and spend time with regularly.

 

[DiXoN]

i'm a single parent although my daughter does not live with me is 19 and i now live with my girlfriend and broke up with her mother 18 years ago.
am i in.

 

[chloe]

DIXON!!! how r u lovely? what u been up to? y arnt u a mod???
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im lucky in the fact that ellies dad lives an hour away. but i have a lot of friends that know him up there.
apparently since it came out that i had his daughter NO ONE has seen him....he has quite literally disappeared off the face of the earth.
myself and him needed to do some blood tests about 6 months ago, i asked him to come to the geneticist appointment with us, i would tell ellie who he was, he could hear what they knew so far and then take our blood.

he said not to b so stupid and that they wouldnt take our blood there....erm yea andy coz u have been there the last 3 years for all the testing.

so yea, went to the appointment without him and had my blood drawn.
we waitied for my results to come back and if it wasnt from me the geneticist would send me a letter with my results to send to him.
now considering he wouldnt even give me his number he wasnt exactly going to hand over his address...damn right he shouldnt either, id b there in a flash.

like i said....6 months ago and hes still not done the tests.
did i mention the only way i can get hold of him is over facebook!!! and thats only when he feels like writing to me.

god hes a little boy, hes not even a man!!

 

[Danzig86]

Hi i thought this would be a good place to find single mums...............giggety, i probably am a dad..............