+1

Water changes are good. 10% weekly is a bad idea. I feed mine first bites, or i use a crumble or flakes and mash it up between the fingers as I drop into the water. My Zonatus parents are the only parents that I have seen doing this, but they would eat, and with some of the left over food they would chew it up and spread it all over the tank. Then every once in a while one of them would drop down into the substrate and flap their fins really hard causing the food in the gravel to float up. Every time they did this the babies would all converge on that area and feed. Never had to feed their fry separately.