These are great fish. My favorite all time of Malawi cichlids. Juvenile fish are not very agressive at first. As the males start to grow though they can get very aggressive. Especially when they want to spawn. Most of the time if a female is not ready to breed the male will kill her especially if they were not raised together. It is best to keep only one male with four or five females in a large tank (100 gal +). You may still have to keep a divider in the tank as the male will get extremly aggressive when he wants to spawn. Although this is the time when the male is the most beautiful. I have never been able to keep more than one male as more than one usually results in the death of one even in a large tank. The last time I kept this species was some years ago. I bought 3 from Walmart believe it or not. When they still had fish in thier store. They were trying to get rid of them and were 3 for $6.00. I grew these out for a little more than a year and had one male reach about 10". One day I came home to find the other two fish killed by this big male The other 2 fish were female and were about 7-8" and thought they could hold thier own as they were raised together. This male lived alone for the rest of his life in a community Tang. tank. He was never aggressive to any other fish except his own. I even tried introducing a much larger female 12". Kept them divided for about 6 months until I thought they might get along. Within 24 hours of putting them together had to separate as the male almost killed the female again. This fish lived for about 6 years. Not sure of the lifespan of these fish and have no reason why he died, just did one day.