I am looking to make a DIY sponge for my tank. My stingrays seem to need the sponge changed every month and its costing me $$$$. What can I use in the filter for a sponge?
Exactly.
Rinse them.
Although I have a deep gravel bed so I don't mind killing off a portion of my BB by rinsing it.
You just can't clean them that good under cold, pressure-less water.