I find with most cichlids, it is best to remove the male to another tank, soon after spawning .
It usually takes @ 10 days to 2 weeks for the female to be ready to spawn again after the fry are removed, and that 2 weeks can be critical for the females survival.
The male is always immediately ready, and if the female isn't responding to his needs, she can be a goner.
And if he's ready, the fry are also in danger, competing for the females attention.