Believe it or not i tell my husband every year not to buy me anything{except a fish of course} one year two years ago he bought me my adonis pleco{i loved that} but other years he buys me flowers and a. stuffed animal..like that too but would rather have another fish} because flowers and stuffed animal is a big waste of money..believe me i don't want to sound like i am complaining but valentines day is just another commercial holiday.. and he should not feel obligated to get me something just because its valentines day unless it is something i really want