The main reason I love stiongrays so much is that on a date, when they ask what I do for fun, I always say, I take care of my stingrays.
As far as experience goes, this has sparked alot of conversations, i.e. how you feed it, etc etc, does it have a name? and my answer is always yes; it's big papa pump.
(In all honesty, the ray's name is Ray.) But that doesn't help much in conversations---so I always follow it up with.....so do you wanna see my big papa pump.
The stingray also, serves as easier way to ask them to come home with you. Wanna see the ray? instead of wanna come up?
STINGRAY IS WIN! Now to bring the aquarium into the bedroom to seal the deal!