dont think ill be here much longer.......

[livebearerfreak]

I don't know why anyone still bothers with this guy?!?

You can't help those who won't help themselves.

It's like he is feeding off you guys, replying, encourages him to continue to make these pointless threads, that anyone can solve with any form of initative.

You need to stop feeding the pigeon.

jjhow the heck do you know i havnt made any pregress yet? im not feeding off anyone, and everyone that cared to replyed actually cares. thanks all! and dont post if you dont have anything good or constritive to say jcon......

 

[pURPLEcHILLIrED123]

“Man, I’m 20, I’m an adult. I can do whatever I want”. “Why do I need to help out Grandma and clean the house when it’s not my mess?”

This guy can’t be helped with that kind on mentality.

 

[dlobom]

everytime i try to help my grandad he gets irritated and angry at me. and its taking a toll on him to. his diabetic acts up when hes like that. even when sit aaround i still have to help him as my grandmother tells me to go ask him if he needs any help.... i dont wanna be the cause of his diabetic attack if he gets one, so in your guys oppinion what should i do? and when i go with them to eau claire and get aplications they complain about it. if i move out this IS the last straw and wont beable to move back in ever again.. so what should i do??

NEED OPPINIONS PLZ! i dont want to move out again but if i have to for my grandfathers sakes i will just so his diabetes dont act up. and if i do decide to move out they will be angry again as i told them ill be here for about a year, and somehow it went up to 2 years ( didnt sign no contracts ) i dont remember saying 2 years but ya. what should i do?? im allowed only 1 water change a month to. and somehow they have control over my fishtank.. on what i can or cant buy. so im kinda irritated and depressed at the same time. ONLY POSITIVE OR HELPFUL advice! so if you dont have anything good to say then leave plz!

and MODS dont lock this one PLZ

Hey you have to do whatever makes you happy, even if that means making your family angry. Just have to remember, specially with your gramps they are not going to be there always and you should make the most of it while they are. But if you think that by being there you're making things harder to them, maybe you should distance yourself a bit (I bet deep down they rather have you around, unless you're a really really crappy grandchild).

What im trying to say is, there is no easy answer, If you dont want to move out, dont, but remember its their house and they will always have the final word into what happens in there.

 

[kevinfleming21]

IRONY; the title of the thread + how long it has been going on........

 

[livebearerfreak]

“Man, I’m 20, I’m an adult. I can do whatever I want”. “Why do I need to help out Grandma and clean the house when it’s not my mess?”

This guy can’t be helped with that kind on mentality.

the fact is, im the only one HELPING around here.... theres 3 others that live here ( my aunt and her 2 kids ) all they do all day is sit and use the computer. heck in a lil bit ill be outside helping getting the fleamarket stuff ready, been doing that the last 2 days. there was a canapy up in the yard for about 3 or 4 months with stuff in them, guess who got the stuff out and put away and took the tent down... me! did i get any help from my cousin or my aunt? no. of course grandad helped and grandmother helped a lil but the fact is i dont get any dang help from my cousins ( which are 16 and 20 ) my 20 year old cousin is due for a baby any day ( so i dont expect her to help cause shes preg ) but my 15 ( well 16 ) year old cousin he is one of the laziest kids ive seen. heck he makes fun of me cause of the way i was born ( no muscle in my eyes and a few other probs ) and my aunt ignores him 90 percent of the time to.... so out of the grandkids that live here im the one that helps ALL the time.. kinda gets tireing after awhile, that im the one that does stuff around here ALL the time....
and dont get me started on my aunt.........

 

[livebearerfreak]

im still trying to find a place, grandparents still think im staying here, but i cant handle the pressure of being the only one doing things all the time with no help. ive got 16 year old friends that have jobs but my cousin no he acts like a child always whining to his mom everytime we ask of him to do somthing or when we say somthing to him.. i understand that im the oldest here, but i also would like some help when im doing somthing. so ya, i may be moving out ( hoply by the end of sept )

 

[jcardona1]

ive got 16 year old friends that have jobs but my cousin no he acts like a child

what about you? you got a job yet?

 

[jcardona1]

no gotta get my liessene

true and getting my liesense is one of my prioitys to.

Or a damned spell check add on/dictionary.

cant help the way i spell things

 

[livebearerfreak]

well im going for another DVR meeting ( a thing for disablied people that helps you find a job ) so hoply after this meeting well find out what jobs are available to me. i got a few paper work to fill out before the first ( thats when the next meeting is ) so by the end of sept ill have a job! excited!

 

[sidneymysnake]

my cousin no he acts like a child always whining to his mom everytime we ask of him to do somthing or when we say somthing to him.

Your situation sucks and all but you are whining and complaining about your grandparents asking you to do something for them. So it's okay for you to do it but not your cousin?

I agree with everyone here, get a job and get out if it's that bad. It's obviously not so bad you can't stand it or you would have been out by now instead of asking for help on here.