Yeah same here buddy, she has 6 inch wide drain pipes in the tank to hide in as well which he is to big for him to fit into, she hides from him quite a bit, think she wants a devorce lol, next time they lay I'm going to try to take the eggs away and air them my self, as someone suggested earlier, I will almost certainly get bitten in the process lol but I'll give it a goMy male is a head case as well, the female bites me too though... I got lucky there I guess lol. Not exactly hoping for more spawns as I don't need them other than for feeders. I'd prefer it only in regards to the beating they're giving each other now that the eggs are all gone lol.( AND NO she is not out in the open and vulnerable, has a couple of hiding spots he can't get too - for the others watching this thread lol)