Dumped

[skiptomyzoo]

i know 6 months aint long, considering it was only 5 months 4 days...but still, was first gf ever..

its harder bc it was the first one. you were fine before them, you will be fine after them. them completing you and all the hogwash you might feed yourself isn't true, and feeling bad for yourself will just prolong the pain. It's a hard truth but: It's over.
So just brush yourself off and don't think about it, or get into situations that will make you think about it. Get out, get over it, and continue your life, bc reguardless of what you would like to think, they are with theirs, and a pity party won't change that. If they made a mistake, they will realize it, but don't wait around for them... and remember like i said above, you were fine before them, you will be fine after them, just be the bigger person.

 

[Stone Like Fish]

Lol, i wasn't actually fine before them =/ They stopped alot of things..like self harm.. for the time lol.

Thanks everyone, found out she has had a bf for a week now, well...finding out that actually helped (after about 10 hours..) But still! Today ive just...been busy with i don't know what cause i can't remember the day so yay! Lol.. Guess i'll just hang around to see what the future cards are in life...And those asteroids in 2032! *fingers crossed* lol.

 

[dudey]

you should be happy... you are SINGLE now!

SERIOUSLY!!!

Consider yourself lucky!!

Now you have more time for everything else!!

you have the rest of your life to find someone else and 5 months... you will get over it soon enough!!

 

[Austin]

you'll be fine bro! i found out last fall my gf of 3 years, who i had told that i thought she might be THE ONE, had only kept me around for the last few months because she "knew i would get her a good birthday present" to quote her conversation with a mutual friend. meanwhile she has slept with a cook from the restaurant she works at, another guy from work, one of her 40+ year old regulars w/ 2 kids (she's 22), and some frat guy. still wouldn't admit it to me come new years when she wanted to work things out (i never told her i knew, no point). fall was interesting......drink beer, play with the fish, you'll be ok man.

 

[dawn]

Keep yer chin up, mate! Things will get easier now, and you'll be able to find someone!

 

[channarox]

SERIOUSLY!!!

Consider yourself lucky!!

Now you have more time for everything else!!

you have the rest of your life to find someone else and 5 months... you will get over it soon enough!!

too true....