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Look at the silver lining.....after 16 years .....finally......FREEDOM!!!

Keep your head up, you'll pull through.
 
i read that joke. well just got of the phone with her and just did one of the hardest things i ever had to do i told her not to call and not to come here any more told leaving was her choice not mine and my choice was for her to leave me alone.
 
Damn man.... (mods pardon my half french) Sorry about that bro... I went through a rough breakup with my ex a few months ago with her cheating on me and all after almost 3 years but 16 and children... I can't imagine... I'm working on kind of rekindling mine now.. but its hard wtih her cheating involved... It's hard to get over, is she going through a mid life crisis or anything? I'd make sure she didnt do it over a stupid reason, like she found out she has cancer or something and was afraid to tell you guys or was scared of something.... Because unless things were severly going sour that sounds way to unusual and off the wall... I'm sorry things are going that way for you man.. I wish you the very best and hope things either straighten out, or you can find a new home for that part of your heart.. Go out and get yourself a fish you've been wanting and havent been able to buy because she said no! You deserve it! If you need someone to vent to or anything feel free to PM me, I'll llisten the best I can! Just dont stop eating and all that craziness! I went through that phase for about a week....
 
drgn1234;701384; said:
just wondering if anybody elses loved ones walked out on them this valintines day. been with her for 16 years we have three chidren together. out of the blue she takes off on us

I am sorry that this is happening to you, the best advice I can give, GET READY TO CALL AN ATTORNEY !!!!!
 
big E;703678; said:
I am sorry that this is happening to you, the best advice I can give, GET READY TO CALL AN ATTORNEY !!!!!

When you get done with the attorney, call some new chicks.Seriously though, sorry to hear you're having family problems.Those are the worst kind.Good luck and remember she left so it's HER loss.Try not to talk bad about mommy to the kids.That's probably gonna be the hardest part.
 
drgn1234;702613; said:
...i told her not to call and not to come here any more told leaving was her choice not mine and my choice was for her to leave me alone.

Sorry to hear of your troubles. Since it happened on Valentines day, read into it knowing something has been going on for a while. I admire your courage to do what is right for you and your kids.
 
dougefresh;702479; said:
same kinda thing happened to me 2 years ago.......my mom, after twenty years of marriage...

You were married to your mom???

Sorry, but ya gotta be careful how you word things. Some of us don't have a life... :popcorn:
 
Sorry about your troubles buddy. Keep in it for the kids though wont you, they don’t deserve to go through the pain at a young age. Heck, concentrate on the kids, keep plenty of milk the fridge and find a new women in time (not your mom like others).

It’s going to be rough buddy, but you’ll pull through, we humans take more than we can envision sometimes.
 
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