If people are that worried about water quality then cut the stock down.
I personally think this is the only sensible approach. If a bit more food is tipping the water quality, the tank is too small for the size of the fish that is actually capable of eating that amount of food....
Left over food on another hand is an obvious sign one is overfeeding. Only a blind man can't see that. Fish leaving left over food have definitely had enough they can handle...But don't confuse how much food a tank can handle with what a fish can handle.
I kept platies that looked like balloons all the time as they were literally in everyone's plate at feeding time, greedy little fish. They lived longer than expected for the species but were kept in larger tanks than the majority of people keep them in, large enough for an Oscar.
We've all left fish without food due to holiday, etc..and they were "fine". Yet, I am not promoting one feeding their fish once every few weeks......
In fact one year I had accidentally left the fish feeder on dumping copious amounts of foods each day for 3 weeks. I came back to equally happy fish....as water quality was not affected to cause an issue and it appeared all the food was eaten too... I am not promoting one dumping that amount of food either but I'd definitely promote setting up a tank that can safely handle accidental "food dumps".
One of the very plausible reasons for HITH in large cichlids is malnutrition....
Malnutrition can result in both, not feeding the right type of food or not feeding enough, plus other factors like flagellates contributing to the nutrients being "stolen" from the fish.
I am not saying anything new here. I am only pointing out the obvious. 34 years ago I put a few baby carp in a 5 gallon tank. I noticed if I fed more bread crumbs the water would become cloudy, so I fed less...They were "fine" for a while...When they died I thought I had overfed them....