Not to argue with anyone above, but ime longer, pointier fins and/or hump on the head for males (hump varies between individuals ime), pretty much as you can see in the photos above. Color not necessarily much difference, again, depending on particular fish. At what size/age you can distinguish them varies with individual and/or how perceptive you are, but as mentioned above they need to get some size to them to see it and, yes, you can get fooled sometimes.
Exactly... The fish will vary with genetics and the environment so every individual will tend to be somewhat different. I believe color can tell you a great difference with the the gender, not necessarily all fish but regarding Green Terrors. I realize this is dependent on a person's level of perception, so this is also opinion when I mention color differences. Size certainly helps, but determining the gender is not always dependent on size. I also agree that sometimes people can be fooled.
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