Why do you complain about everything OP?
Really, this is the frikkin lounge section.
If you don't like it, don't read it!!
I have seen the house that they did in my area for the family.. the little boy has a disability, and he can not walk... making a house accommodating for the person and giving them an easier life is great IMO, but there does need to be a line drawn.
Just because you have faced an obstacle (just like everyone else has) that means we feel you should get to live in a 3 million dollar house.. no.. life isn't fair, and yeah, it sucks.. but come on.. what's essential, and what's not is getting a bit too blurred.