Lights off, give it some time - throw a live crayfish or 2 in there and he'll eat when he's ready. Just avoid making changes or doing anything else that might stress it out and hopefully it will calm down.
Yea ive had them off if it comes on he goes bizerk and you know when i got him there was already a crayfish in there and he hadnt touched it so who knows but im tring doing everything you guys are telling me cause i wanna keep this guy for a while