MDH;670524; said:Ok, I've got an update here....the convict I thought was a female has been guarding an area of the tank tonight, and has dug up a 2"x2" gravel pit on the left side of the tank (swooping down, and moving the gravel with his/her bottom)....the male and her have been sparring (lip locking, and doing circles around one another)......My blue acara keeps coming over into the area, and she usually swims right away when he comes near her, but has been holding her ground as best as she can. Is this a male or female characteristic? I'm leaning more towards the female side, am I right?!?!
sounds like you have a female, it is hard for me to tell from the picture you posted but if the fish is 2-3" then it is def a female. Female cons do loose there color when they are rearing their young.
Can you tell which con is the female in th pic below?

