Finally, A No Screaming Kids Restaurant

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From Fox News-

:headbang2A North Carolina restaurant says screaming children are no longer welcome and that has some parents outraged.


There's a new item on the menu at Olde Salty Restaurant on Carolina Beach. And it may be hard for some parents to digest. No screaming children. Brenda Armes, Olde Salty's owner says, "If they find it offending, I suggest that they find another restaurant to eat at that does tolerate it, because we're not going to."

Armes is tired of hearing her customers complain about screaming kids while they're trying to dine. So she put up these signs inside and out. She says, "It has brought us in more customers than it's ever kept away."

Gary Gibson is a first time customer. He says, "Having grandchildren, going into restaurants with them is not very enjoyable when you hear a bunch of kids screaming. So, it is nice to see a sign like that up."

But these parents from West Virginia don't think the signs are so nice. Ashley Heflin says, "I've never seen a restaurant say don't bring your screaming kids in here. You can't help if your kids scream."

Armes certainly thinks you can. That's why she confronted the Heflins during our interview with them. Armes says, "You don't think it's fair that I ask you if you're sitting at my table?" Heflin says, "Personally, if I saw that, I wouldn't even come in the restaurant." Armes responds, "I understand, I understand."

It was then that the Heflins' baby started to cry. In question was whether that would be tolerated in the restaurant. Heflin says, "I mean, he cries like that... other kids cry."

Armes says, "That's a crying baby. Here's a screaming child. Wah! Wah! Wah!"

Regardless, all Armes asks is that if your child is screaming, you take them outside. Armes says, "We aren't saying your child can't have fun. We're not saying your child can't be in here."

Still, the policy from armes has parents up in arms over their next meal. The owner says if a patron's child acts up, a restaurant worker will ask the parents to take the child outside. Armes says she won't ask parents, or their children, to leave the restaurant for good.
 

SpeshulEd

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Awesome! All restaurants should have this policy. Actually, I can't complain...most places I go don't even have children in them.

Now if we could just get them out of the movies and off planes, we'd be all set.
 

cichlid2006

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Lol, about time someone stood up to the breeders. I had this idea ages ago after going for a bar lunch with babies everywhere crying while I was trying to enjoy a meal with my wife but I don't own a restaurant so it was forgotten till now. Worst anniversary meal I have ever had. It really bugs me. I didn't realise others thought crying kids were a bad thing in restaurants too, pleased I am not alone.

I am surprised someone has actually done it though. Didn't think anyone would ever get away with it. I want kids but I would leave a restaurant if they had a screaming fit, it is not fair on the other diners. I know kids can't help it but everyone else didn't pay good money to listen to a baby/child whinging for an hour or two.
 

Lupin

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I like the idea. I'd rather enjoy my time talking with friends while eating without the unnecessary interruptions by children screaming their heads off. I always find it rude that screaming is tolerated when others are talking. Give the customers their space for heaven's sake and it is the owner's right if he/she wants screaming children out if these parents find it offensive.
 

Knowdafish

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SpeshulEd;4453179; said:
Awesome! All restaurants should have this policy. Actually, I can't complain...most places I go don't even have children in them.

Now if we could just get them out of the movies and off planes, we'd be all set.
Agreed! It's a matter of courtesy, which is sadly lacking with a lot of parents!
 

Zfishies

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I agree and diss agree. The parent should have controll to tell/TEACH there child not to scream, accept if the kid is in pain... And some kids can't help it if they do 1-3year old is gunna poop in there pants and cry and scream is there nature ...I know If I did this when I was little I wouldn't sit for a week lol
 

Danzig86

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I hate that look parents give you when their kids are being loud and obnoxious like
"I know they soooo clever arent they little jimmy can eat the contents of his knows while screaming SPONGEBOB SQUAREPANNNNNNTTTTTTTTTSSSSSSSSSSSSS in the middle of a supermarket!"
To which i give reply look of "If your kid dont move outta my trolleys way im gonna run em over!!!"
 

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I see what they are trying to do. But i have to say no matter how well you kid is, sometimes they scream and there is NOTHING you can do about it.
 

cichlid2006

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crazyman229;4454413; said:
I see what they are trying to do. But i have to say no matter how well you kid is, sometimes they scream and there is NOTHING you can do about it.
So do the right thing and leave. When I have kids I will leave a restaurant, even McD's, if they won't stop screaming. I will even go so far as to punish the child if they have done it for no good reason (considering their age of course), they need to know it is not acceptable to cry in a restaurant for no good reason. I will give them something to cry about as my mum used to say to me.
When kids scream now I glare at people and talk louder about how rude the parents are and how bad it is that they don't fix the situation which it is in their power to do. Even as far as complaining to the waiter so they have a word, if they don't I leave without paying, make a complaint about the lazy staff and never go again. Most restaurants comply as I am not the only one who does this.

While I understand that sometimes children cry for no reason, manners and courtesy cost nothing.
 

meghanashley

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I agree with it, when my son acted up as a toddler and I was somewhere like a restaurant, I would leave. I would do the same if it happened in movie, or a ceremony or something along those lines as well.

There are some places that I would not leave though. My son has had two mental breakdowns while traveling via airplane once in an airport and once on a plane, both times he was exhausted and I felt terrible.... terrible, but I'm not walking out on my tickets because my kid is having fit. I'm not sure what the solution would be to this except being allowed to drug them :) (kidding I would never waste something like that on my son) or having scream rooms like they do in churches.

It's uncomfortable to punish your kid in public, because people WILL judge you, unfortunately for my son I don't care. I think the reason some parents just look around helpless instead of reprimanding their kids is because they are afraid of being judged.
 
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