whelp before your head gets to big I'm going throw some change in this.
hmmm i cant agree with you there, you can cycle a tank in many ways without going about it the old try and true method.
So I'm going give ya the iv been keeping fish for over 20 years as well and i have setup many tanks and had fish in them the same day by stealing bio from other tanks. weather it be gravel, water, filters, fish etc and have NEVER lost a fish so go ahead say its wrong.. sure isn't wrong to any of my fish as there still kicking and spawning for me all the time.
i also think being condescending towards members just makes ya look like a arse and sooner or later nobody is going to give a crap what your opinion is, 20 years 30 years or 1 year were always going to be still learning, when ya think your a master at your own hobby is when its going to bite ya in the azz.
How about instead of *****ing at a member about what they may or may not being doing right or wrong you just sit back and give them constructive criticism??.
I'm also going to say this. you say 20 years in this hobby means nothing? well doesn't mean a damn thing that ya got 1 post of 5000 posts doesn't make you a expert.
I have to agree with jay i don't recall seeing any ware he asked for your cycling opinion
and ya didn't ask for mine either but i really don't care. seeing you don't care about the other members here, and do not take the time to think before you type.
BUT back to jay..
I think you will be quite happy with small gravel and river rock. and maybe a nice show chunk of DW
keep us updated!
Joe