I got some convicts so I could try to whole baby experience. They have laid eggs and what not. It has been 3 days and some eggs are turning white and I read these are the bad ones. But my real question is...Is it normal for the male to not allow the female even close to the eggs? She is trying with everything she has to get to them but he is not allowing her to. She has even tried to go through the small hole on the back of the pot...Also when do I begin feeding them?