The determination of an aggression scale has more to do with tank size, and territoriality than fish size.
In a 2 to 4 ft tank, a 3" JD or FM or other cichlid might kill every other fish in the tank within a short time.
In a 6 ft tank either may be only aggressive to other similar looking cichlids.
In a larger space (8ft +) they may be totally harmless.
A friend had a 10" FM in a 300 gal tank, and a number of other largish cichlids, with no aggression at all. But..
I have tried to keep 12" Paratilapia together in a 400 gallon kiddy pool/pond, where they killed each other.
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Or where I put a dozen 7" Panamanian GTs in a 6 ft 185 gal, and the dominant male killed all others except the 3 females he consorted with, but left all non-cichlids unharmed
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