Something is really wrong, can't be something that's just slightly off as Oscars are tough as nails so if they are dying then you got problems. If you can get more bio from another tank and add it to the sump I would then stop the drip and do water changes. No offense to you but this is a good example how these kinds of things can happen to anyone and even the most decked out setups like drips and UVs and such. Then people with small tanks and primitive filtrations and husbandry can house rays for years with no problems. I believe luck plays a big role to even the most avid ray keepers. Hope things get better for you man!