Why would you need opinions from experienced dat keepers to decide if your aros will eat your dats? Sounds more like a question for experienced aro keepers to me...
I have had my aro for a year with much smaller fish than your dats, and I have not lost a single fish since I set up the tank a year ago, so just based off of my experience alone, I'd say you should be fine, but it probably depends on the aro. btw, my aro is now around 2' long, and my smallest fish are a 7" senegal bichir that is about the diameter of a man's middle finger (which often comes to the top for air and has never had any kind of interaction with the aro), and two 8" lima shovelnose cats.
I have had my aro for a year with much smaller fish than your dats, and I have not lost a single fish since I set up the tank a year ago, so just based off of my experience alone, I'd say you should be fine, but it probably depends on the aro. btw, my aro is now around 2' long, and my smallest fish are a 7" senegal bichir that is about the diameter of a man's middle finger (which often comes to the top for air and has never had any kind of interaction with the aro), and two 8" lima shovelnose cats.