These fish do so well when they are solo in the tank. When they are solo they tend to pay attention to their owners even more. I have had so many males, that when they were solo, they would swim up and put their heads into the palm of my hand. My buddies would play ping pong with you and hit the ball back out of the tank. Really cool stuff. Don't be afraid to wash your hands and try to interact with him in the water. Some people aren't into it and I respect that BUT I do believe it is one of the many fun things about this breed. They are like underwater dogs. Enjoy, he's a beauty.