I keep hearing the same thing...You will change your mind...everyone that has changed their mind has had it changed by a spouse, parent, etc. I don't want the responsibility, and I wish that the 16 year old girl who looks like she had too many burritos but is actually pregnant would realize the same thing: children are expensive, messy, smelly, and basically keep you from realizing your other goals and dreams. All I keep hearing is: I would travel to Europe, but...I would have a sports car but...I would live on lakeshore property but...
The answers to the "buts" are...can't afford it, and can't bring the kids...need a minivan

...It's dream home or college tuition.
It's your choice...But don't complain when you can't have your dream. If children are your dream then go for it. If not, then $.75 will prevent all that...LOL