Even trade for the male? You can search through my photo albums on my profile and see if there is anything you want in there. I still have all of em. The only fish I wont part with is the rd fh I already have and the oscars.
He got irritated with the introduction of the FH and started rubbing up against the glass back and forth for quite some time. The coloration has since made a full recovery in the barbell, and the bottom lip as well. I think he just rubbed it raw against the side of the tank. It should begin to regenerate length wise in a pretty short amount of time. Here's the thread from when it happened. http://www.monsterfishkeepers.com/forums/showthread.php?t=206809