Howdy Half,
and welcome to MFK. Where in Germany are you from?
Compare your post to mine, and you'll find out that we are not as far apart as you might think.

Certainly, and as I said before, plants
can use nitrogen in any oxidation state. However,
if their primary nitrogen source was ammonia or nitrite, keeping fish and plants would be mutually exclusive: To satisfy the plants nitrogen requirements, the levels of nitrite or ammonia would have to be so high that they'd be toxic to fish. Fortunately, plants like nitrate best.
The reason that the primary component of fertilizers is ammonia is simple, it's an economical aspect: The
Haber-Bosch-Verfahren, invented 1910 allows the fixation of atmospheric nitrogen to ammonia for real cheap. And since nitrogen is the primary limiting factor in agriculture, plants take whatever they get, in this case ammonia. Converting the fertilizer to nitrates before administering it to the fields is uneconomical, since ammonia is
usable by plants. Since nitrogen is limited (Liebig's Law), they take it up. As I stated before, nitrogen is not limiting according to Liebig's law in our aquariums.
Bottom line: If plants were to rely on ammonia or nitrite, we wouldn't be able keep fish in our planted tanks.
Okay, I quit beating this horse
HarleyK