Got a Problem,With a Girl :/

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I wouldnt like be dating her. Like she would be known as my GF so like i would be the one she would 'ya know' with. We wouldnt do that going out to the cinema thing together. Just like its complicated :ROFL: But i went out with a few mates today and 1 of them was one of the 3 that dont like her. And he said go for it 'Dont let me hold you back if you like her im fine with it and anyway im startin to like her'. So thats one out of the way :ROFL:
 
Inglorious;5000281; said:
What do you mean she's the one you'll be doing 'ya know' with? Are you referring to having interactions of a sexual nature with her?

Welll to a certain extent yes. :ROFL:
 
Certain extent? Lol
 
Haha, I really wish now that I'm 24 I could go back 10 years and have a sit down with myself and have a little chat. I'd probably have a phd by now and be making six figures. ;)

Seriously, priority number one for your day to day worries should be school (or if you want to get into a trade, focus on that). If you want to date a girl and have some fun, great. Just don't get too wrapped up in it and start neglecting other important things, like education, friends, and maybe most important your family! I realized too late with a lot of my family the importance of spending time together. By the time I got out of high school, all my grandparents had passed, and I really regret not getting to know them better.
I used to think I had it all figured out, but the older I get the more I realize people like my dad have a lot of stuff figured out. :)

So if you wanna hang out on weekends with her and have some fun, great. But don't get totally wrapped up in it. Don't text her every five minutes and spend all your time thinking about her. There's a lot more productive things you can do with your time.
 
aclockworkorange;5000542; said:
Haha, I really wish now that I'm 24 I could go back 10 years and have a sit down with myself and have a little chat. I'd probably have a phd by now and be making six figures. ;)

Seriously, priority number one for your day to day worries should be school (or if you want to get into a trade, focus on that). If you want to date a girl and have some fun, great. Just don't get too wrapped up in it and start neglecting other important things, like education, friends, and maybe most important your family! I realized too late with a lot of my family the importance of spending time together. By the time I got out of high school, all my grandparents had passed, and I really regret not getting to know them better.
I used to think I had it all figured out, but the older I get the more I realize people like my dad have a lot of stuff figured out. :)

So if you wanna hang out on weekends with her and have some fun, great. But don't get totally wrapped up in it. Don't text her every five minutes and spend all your time thinking about her. There's a lot more productive things you can do with your time.

You should be one of those guys that help people when there in situations. Your pretty good at giving advice.
 
at only 14, you're too young to worry about women.

If I Could go back and have a chat with my 14 year old self, i'd tell myself to get less involved in school work, and actually have fun. ultimately all that science, arithmatic, and pretty much everything was useless.
 
I want to be a Marine Biologist or a Solicitor So i need science :ROFL:
 
But yeah im not exactly a star pupil. I dont really take school seriously like i get good results in most subjects Irish,English,German,Science. So i have an Enjoyable life :ROFL:
 
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