Your tank is incredible. Beautiful fish and setup. I checked out the recent update video but as soon as I get some time I'm going to check out that build thread. Nice work!
I always thought of the 1"/month thing as only really for certain species (oscars/midas/RDs/etc.) and that it only really applies until they hit a certain size/age. Once they hit a certain size (varies depending on species/individual), IME I've seen that growth slows down across the board and that you may notice the gains in thickness and height more so then even length once you get to that point.
It also must be tough to notice size increases in a tank of that size! Just continue to keep your water quality up, keep feeding a healthy diet regularly and rest assure that they are growing!
BTW, what NLS do you feed? cichlasoma or large/jumbo? Have you tried a higher protein food to mix in? I believe cichlasoma is around 37% and the large/jumbo may even be less, but hikari gold is 40% and the Bio Gold is around 45%. I use the cichlasoma NLS, but also use hikari gold, hikari bio gold, and northfin tropical sticks which are 43% I believe. I also feed some frozen krill, which is an option but can get expensive especially with all the fish you have.