having a crush

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tankbusterlover

tankbusterlover

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Hi,

I have a problem. I have a big crush on this one woman. I want to be with her and only her. I try to tell to myself don't put your life on hold. Go date other womans. It,s full of woman out there just waiting for love.

I ask myself what is it about this woman that the others don't have. Why do i put her on a pedestral. The wrost is how can i say that i love her when i don't even really know her.

I just say to myself smile at her when you meet her and try to have a conversation. If she does not want to it's alright there is other woman out there. If she is have a boyfriend it's alright too because i doubt it will last anyway seeing how both real young we are.

But still i know when i meet her over the holiday if she does not want to speak to me or if she has a boyfriend i am going to be depressed.
 
Umm...You're thinking way too much on this one. I would not go overboard if I were you. Befriend her and try to ask her for a date once you get to know her better. You can find out for yourself the qualities she has that you may like and learn to appreciate her better than that. Don't make conclusions whether she has a boyfriend or not. In time, you will know it. By the way, you should not rush everything either. Enjoy every moment you are able to talk well with her. What matters in my opinion, is creating new bridges and love comes after that if it will.

I've been through this before.lol I am already in a relationship yet I cannot help but feel I still love the other girl who spurned my advances. Oh well...Her loss, not mine. I try to think that despite having difficulty moving on and it makes it easier for me.
 
Yes we can't help for who we fall for. We really don,t meet often. I want to be her friend first. I have this fear of loss. That is she is dating someone else then i have lost her.
 
throwing the L word around eh? if you haven't met her it must be like how you love fish or love pizza. lupin gave you great advice, good luck

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I'm a little confused.. You've never met her? Or did I miss something? Ok, lets say you haven't, and in my passed experiences they never turn out to be that great. I mean, she could be, but don't put her on the pedestal you say you have her on already. I think as humans we are all basically the same, you know afraid or excited about round about the same things. How old are anyway? Anyhow, don't freak out about it so much, just think in anther 2-5 yrs you won't even remember this happend... or most likely not.. I mean unless you guys get married or something... but don't think about that right now... Good Luck buddy!!!
 
Yes i know her. Our family are really close. It,s just that i meet her here or there. Never really had a chance to really speak. All i know is she think i am cute and that she likes my smile. That is all i know. There were feelings for me too on her side at some point.
 
How will you know? You better gather your courage and ask her if she wishes to be friends with you already.;)
 
tankbusterlover;4718547; said:
Yes i know her. Our family are really close. It,s just that i meet her here or there. Never really had a chance to really speak. All i know is she think i am cute and that she likes my smile. That is all i know. There were feelings for me too on her side at some point.
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Dude! You know she likes your smile and you know she thinks your cute! Your in to make a move, you should be a lot more confident... you'll be alright..!
 
We all talk about the big fish that got away....... don't spend the rest of your life with what if or could have beens talking about it instead of just doing it. Life is sometimes too short and time is not kind at times.

Be proud if she turns you down that you had the guts to ask and think of yourself as the big fish that got away from her as it would have been her loss. You are your own worst critic not anybody else.
 
She is involved with someone else that is the problem. but anyway i try to take it slow and i will try to be her friends. It,s just that i know i will be depressed seeing them kiss over the holiday when i should not because there is so many other woman out there.
 
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