Ok so my female red dragon flower horn has been laying eggs on a biweekly basis. I've tried everything accept removing the divider to let the breeding work...yet my male has not proven himself yet...What am i doing wrong...what should i be doing...should i try to remove the divider? I did the old switcharoo when the female laid the eggs three days ago, at first the male was tending to the, then i notice they were all gone.