Thanks.. I am aware of this. This will be a chance I sort of have to take... Long story short my wife loves discus.. In the end if they end up being a tasty treat then I can get my pbass and arowana
Unfortunately she doesn't care much for aquariums. Don't get me wrong, discus are awesome. They are one of the reasons why I got into fish keeping and larger tanks. But I've been looking at rays for a long time now. I'm just glad I am in a place that I can afford/have time for them